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AGE RELATED MEMORY LOSS PROBLEMS

 Volume 1: 31                       

 "I saw the doctor today about my loss of memory."

 "What did he do?"

 "Made me pay him in advance."

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* The Age-Related Memory Losses

The following humorous description that fits many age-

associated memory problems was sent to me this week

via John Adams, a dear friend of my Aunt Bernie's.

And though this anecdote is not a scientific piece,

it certainly is a valid expression of the progressive

changes people experience as they age, related to

their memory.

Typically, when you visit your doctor, the symptoms

of this story will be labeled for you in any of the

following three ways:

1- Age Associated Memory Impairment (AAMI)

2- Age-Related Cognitive Decline (ARCD) or

3- Mild Cognitive Impairment(MCI).

Just realize, there is a great deal one can do to avoid

an ongoing experience like the one you will read about

here.

So let's talk about the road to freedom from this

dilemma. I will join you again at the end of this

thoroughly enjoyable sketch . . .

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* Humorous Anecdote: Our Future Ailment

Do you know what A. A. A. D. D is?  Age-Activated Attention

Deficit Disorder. This is how it manifests:

I decide to water my garden.

As I turn on the hose in the driveway, I look over at my car

and decide my car needs washing.

As I start toward the garage, I notice that there is mail on

the porch table that I brought up from the mail box earlier.

I decide to go through the mail before I wash the car.

I lay my car keys down on the table, put the junk mail in the

garbage can under the table, and notice that the can is full.

So, I decide to put the bills back on the table and take out

the garbage first.

But then I think, since I'm going to be near the mailbox when I take out

the garbage anyway, I may as well pay the bills first. I take my check

book off the table, and see that there is only one check left. My extra

checks are in my desk in the study, so I go inside the house to my desk

where I find the can of Coke that I had been drinking. I'm going to look

for my checks, but first I need to push the Coke aside so that I don't

accidentally knock it over. I see that the Coke is getting warm, and I

decide I should put it in the refrigerator to keep it cold.

As I head toward the kitchen with the Coke a vase of flowers

on the counter catches my eye--they need to be watered.

I set the Coke down on the counter, and I discover my reading

glasses that I've been searching for all morning.

I decide I better put them back on my desk, but first I'm

going to water the flowers.

I set the glasses back down on the counter, fill a container

with water and suddenly I spot the TV remote. Someone left

it on the kitchen table.

I realize that tonight when we go to watch TV, I will be

looking for the remote, but I won't remember that it's on the

kitchen table, so I decide to put it back in the den where it

belongs, but first I'll water the flowers.

I pour some water in the flowers, but quite a bit of it spills

on the floor.

So, I set the remote back down on the table, get some towels

and wipe up the spill.

Then I head down the hall trying to remember what I was

Planning to do.

At the end of the day:

 . . . the car isn't washed,

 . . . the bills aren't paid,

 . . . there is a warm can of Coke sitting on the counter,

 . . . the flowers don't have enough water,

 . . . there is still only one check in my check book,

 . . . I can't find the remote,

 . . . I can't find my glasses,

 . . . and I don't remember what I did with the car keys.

Then when I try to figure out why nothing got done today, I'm

really baffled because I know I was busy all day long, and I'm

really tired.

I realize this is a serious problem, and I'll try to get some

help for it, but first I'll check my e-mail.

Do me a favor, will you? Forward this message to everyone you

know, because I don't remember to whom it has been sent.

Don't laugh -- if this isn't you yet, your day is coming!

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* Familiar Territory? Available--The Possible Solutions

What a great thread! Though humorous, this is a dilemma

that more and more people are experiencing.

Can I offer some possible helpful suggestions that have

worked for other people???

I am thoroughly amazed at how well a memory loss such as the one

depicted responds to great vitamins, organic foods if possible,

vegetables, fruits, fish, omega oils, antioxidants, many amino-acids,

minerals, and clean water.

It's because B-12 is such an important Vitamin, but so difficult to

absorb. And by the way, if you skip out on Magnesium many of your

needed Amino-Acids and your Calcium won't be absorbed either.

Remember this. You must take PREMEMLO with

Phosphatidylserene (100-300 mg) and Phosphatidylcholine (500 mg).

And always take Omegas (up to 1000 mg per day), 100% Vitamin B

Complex, and a Multi-Vitamin every day.

If you can, take 3 tablespoons of wheat grass daily also to

increase alkalinity, which is very helpful to memory. That

is why all leafy green veggies and especially spinach,

(which also has a naturally occurring caffeine), help the

memory.

Don't misunderstand. I am not telling you drinking coffee all

day long helps memory, because too much of it only increases

insulin which is hard on the brain.

However, the amount of naturally occurring caffeine in spinach

or in the Get Go N Plus from Biometics is equal to about 1 cup

of coffee, but it is natural to high performing B Vitamin

foods.

You can get any of the other items mentioned here (except

Biometics) at a health food store or order your Omegas, PS and

PC from us.

Just E-mail me with questions about how to order if you like.

The Products Page at http://www.TheMemoryDoc.com offers PS/PC & 

Omegas.

We will call you back if you need help to place orders!

So leave a message toll free at 1-877-490-3538 if you

have any difficulties or questions.

But please don't think you can get the needed vitamins

by eating a few eggs and taking a Multi-Vitamin from your

grocer!

However, your diet of leafy greens, green tea, antioxidant

berries, fish, eggs, almonds, avocadoes, tomatoes, olive

oil, and even red wine on occasion and plenty of water

always remains important.

Finally, get some exercise and keep using your brain in

daily activities of your choosing--reading, writing,

journaling, memorizing, studying, and/or playing word

games.

Thanks for reading and thank you, John Adams and Aunt

Bernie, for your contribution this week. Please let me

know if there is another author to reference besides--

'Anonymous' for that great tale on the future ailment--

AAADD - Age-Activated Attention Deficit Disorder.

Best regards to each of you. Have a wonderful week.

Warmly,

Dr. Jill

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The Memory Doc by Jill Joyce, PhD

Volume 1: 30                            April 5, 2005

* Today's Simple Memory Quote: "For such a time as this"

* Russian Men Fear Their Doctors! Let’s Not Do Likewise

* Not Enough Time To Heal: My Father-In-Law's Death After Surgery

* Hope in Serious "Global" Memory Loss Cases

* Why I Wrote "Don't Forget: What Drug & Insurance Co.'s

   Don't Want You To Know About Memory Loss" or "Help!"

* The Right to Live Issue for Serious Memory Loss, etc.

* Joni Eareckson Tada's Spinal Cord Injury

* Florida Society of Neurology--Neurologists Want More Therapy

 

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* Russian Men Fear Their Doctors! Let’s Not Do Likewise

Dear Friends,

In the years 1989-1996, I was graced with the good fortune

of helping my now ex-husband bring Russian airplanes into

the US at the beginning of a period known as "perestroika"

and "glasnost."

The hot little sport aerobatic airplane with the coveted

guttural engine and fantastic vertical penetration is

called the "Sukhoi."

The difference in doing business with Russians was that

they never came alone one CEO at a time. No--we hosted

33 Russians all at once!

The group included pilots who helped cargo the planes

over, mechanics, engineers, and even the original designer.

The planes had been designed using Russian aerospace

technology and American pilots wanted this airplane

--badly.

Hanging out with these Russians always led to some

interesting events.

One I recall was when a Russian mechanic wanted to

try out the motorcycle of one of our employees, a

female pilot.

Though he knew Russian equipment, he knew nothing of

our motorcycles and due to the language barrier between

himself and the female pilot, he managed to slam the

bike into a wall.

A few days later, when I saw he was in pain, I asked

my husband if he noticed that Evgeny was limping?

We asked Evgeny if he was okay, but he seemed very

reluctant to discuss his limp with us at all.

Finally we were able to find out by talking to others

about his motorcycle mishap.

We went to Evgeny and offered to take him to the hospital.

He said "Oh no, no doctors!"

Clearly, Evgeny was afraid to go to doctors in his own

country and did not realize he would get some relief if

he allowed us to take him in our country.

The next odd thing that happened was the day the chief

designer for the aircraft complained that he had a

toothache. We offered to take him to the dentist.

He disappeared for a few moments in the back of our

shop at the airport. Then he reappeared holding the

tooth up clamped in a pair of pliers and proudly smiled

as he displayed it for us!

He had managed to pull the tooth out all by himself

with the pliers rather than to be taken to any dentist!

These Russian men were made to be very afraid of their

health care system. It did not represent a place to go

for healing.

Both men let us know beyond a shadow of a doubt that

the idea of going to any doctors anywhere was

unacceptable.

Please--I hope we never become victims of such thinking

in the USA, where our doctors have been such wonderful

healers--but I am afraid we are on the doorstep.

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* The BBC and A Father's Death After Surgery

As I reviewed the BBC news last week and learned a

little of Europe's lack of sympathy over our handling of

one woman's brain-injury, I once again realized all the

forces operating which made me want to offer people

personal help about the brain and write a book.

It was 'for such a time as this' that "Don't Forget: What

Drug and Insurance Co.'s Don't Want You To Know About

Memory Loss" was born.

And though I realize we have great science to help

with brain ailments, common folks must learn more

about the difficult topic to protect their loved

ones and have intelligent communication with their

doctors.

This is especially true because the interests of

insurance and drug companies are pushing any scientific

agenda more and more out of the realm of practical

do-ability.

Confusing problems of memory loss and brain ailments

are confronting people everywhere.

Consider--in my own family, in 1996--my own father-

in-law. He was given only 5 weeks to heal from triple

by-pass surgery before the insurance company insisted

medical treatment be pulled and he died.

This occurred after one doctor began to insist my father-

in-law had a stroke. However, he could not conduct tests

to prove his theory. Still, he would not wait until my

father-in-law was well enough to be certain of the stroke

diagnosis.

Obviously, even the presence of a stroke should not determine such a

drastic measure anyway. When his doctor insisted on holding back the

needed dialysis treatments and used his living will as justification, he

convinced everyone in the family (except me) that there was already

nothing more that could be done.

Without any tests, this doctor began calling his movements "reflexes"

even though they corresponded properly with our interactions with him.

This doctor also spoke of him as though he was already dead--right in

front of him--where my father-in-law might have grasped what was

being said. Not wise, kind, or helpful! You see, after years of working

with cases like my father- in-law's, I saw a man lying there who needed

a doctor who was not under such mandated time pressure--who could

give him time to heal a bit more.

However, our family is not the only one with tragic traumatic end-of-life

experiences these days. But I can point to that singular event as being

very significant in tearing our family apart.

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* There is Hope in "Global" Memory Loss Cases

In therapy rooms for 20 years, I saw lots of severe cases take longer

than 5 weeks to become responsive after strokes and other serious conditions like surgery or head trauma.

I spoke out in staff meetings for many of them if I saw

bodily responses, allowing many of them to eventually

go home, and kept many of them from going into nursing

homes after receiving more therapy.

Since I hate using the word "vegetable," let me give

you the correct medical term health professionals are

supposed to use in discussions of brain-injured people.

We normally prefer to speak of a "global" state of

non-responsiveness rather than to just call them

"vegetables."

With that said, many people, who look "global," do get

well enough to function, communicate, and go home again

in a short period of time.

Other people may look and act terrific at first, but then

often do not get well.

Go figure! There is often no visible rhyme or reason as to

why one person improves and another does not other than

therapy and family involvement.

Needless to say, the ones who have the chance to improve

will often be offered at least 3-6 months of therapy before

their future progress or lack of it can usually be

properly ascertained.

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* "Don't Forget: What Drug & Insurance Co.'s Don't Want You

  To Know About Memory Loss" or "Help!"

One reason my book, "Don't Forget" was written was because

I witnessed this surprising healing process on a regular basis.

And in research interviews--the families told me about

their major problems with health care for memory loss.

My interview subjects, (families with a member with memory

loss), seemed almost beside themselves to receive more

information and education about memory loss problems.

The common request in the vernacular was "Help!"

Just prior to the 90's, Speech/Language Pathologists(SLP-CCC)

were doing a lot of successful brain and cognitive recovery

work--much more than they are able to do today.

However, the needs are much greater now.

The period of time for such therapy has been so greatly

reduced by insurance carriers that it significantly impedes

the possibility of healing to acceptable levels--where

people can return to whatever their station in life was--

as people often used to do.

That is why families ought to understand some of these basic

therapy techniques and offer re-training for at least 6 months

through a therapist to ascertain the status of the disorder.

However, if no therapy is available, there are many things

families and friends could do for people with memory loss

or learning problems with the assistance of a book like

mine and just occasional consultations from a speech/language

therapist (SLP-CCC) and visits to their neurologist.

Now, more than ever, the family's personal touch is

necessary. The world we are living in is not going in a

therapeutic direction when there is brain injury, memory

loss, or weakness of mental capacities.

If anything the problems involved in stimulating these

people to achieve improvements are getting much worse.

Certainly, the events and happenings all around us in

recent weeks are already having other unintended affects

and reverberations.

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To read this article in its entirety click here:

http://www.joniandfriends.org/apcm/APCMviewer.asp?a=128&z=4

* Florida Society of Neurology--Neurologists Want More Therapy

The neurologists I talked with last December at the Memory

Loss convention put on by the Florida Society of Neurology

admitted: Cognitive therapies are terribly lacking after

memory loss disorders and other disabling brain ailments

occur.

Many of the doctors there discussed with me this very real

need admitting that they constantly concur on this lack of

therapy amongst themselves for their patients with memory

loss and brain disorders.

Just because insurance is not paying for therapy right now,

does not mean it doesn't work.

Nor does it mean those who need this therapy are not still

out there somewhere. They are everywhere!

I hope that if you know one of them you will not succumb

to the belief being purported by the present mentality

that there is no possibility of healing for them.

It simply isn't true.

Warm Regards,

Dr. Jill

E-Mail: drjjoyce@att.net
http://www.thememorydoc.com
561-200-9380

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Volume I:26                    March 15, 2005

* St. Patty's Joke & Memory Quote

Q: Why did God invent alcohol?

A: To keep the Irish from taking over the world.

                                 --Anonymous Old Irish Joke

* Reagan Optimism

There's a story about two little boys who wake up

early one Christmas morning and sneak downstairs to

check out the presents.

They get a surprise when they come around the corner

and see that someone has dumped a load of manure over

the tree and all the presents.

The older boy is very upset and shouts, "This is awful,

who would do such a thing, it's terrible, it stinks"

and on and on he whines doing nothing about it.

The younger brother goes to the shed in the back yard

and gets a shovel. He comes into the house and starts

digging in the mess saying,

"With all this manure in here, there's gotta be a pony in

here somewhere!"

                         --A Ronald Reagan Favorite

   . . . Many conditions that result in severe memory

loss or dementia--such as vitamin deficiency, thyroid

disease, certain infections, drug reactions, circulatory

disease, brain tumors, small brain infarcts, head injuries,

and depression--are arrestable, reversible, or even pre-

ventable . . . "

                                 --Crook and Adderly

                                   From "The Memory Cure"

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* Why Alzheimer's Is Not Just Genetic

Before talking about President Reagan's case, to make my point,

I'd like to review the many leaks in the theory that

Alzheimer's is just a genetic problem you can't do anything

about.

In fact, believing Alzheimer's is inevitable is as bad as

letting yourself get fat so you can have liposuction treat-

ments.

Instead, perhaps you might want to review some researched

facts . . .

For example, did you know that those who avoid head-injuries

or minor strokes, also avoid Alzheimer's?

David Snowdon's research shows that even persons with the

genes for Alzheimer's do not acquire the symptoms if

mini-strokes do not occur first.

Researchers like Ann Wigmore found that green vegetable

products like wheat grass proved helpful to dementias

as early as the 1940's. Many other doctors like Robert

Young M.D. and Gary Null Ph.D. agree.

Eat green veggies. They decrease acid, increase alkalinity,

and get oxygen to the blood.

Many report that simply getting proper Omega 3 daily

is an absolute must. Since the body cannot produce Omegas,

this must be achieved through outside sources like eggs,

fish and vitamins. By the way, children need Omegas as much

as adults do.

Anti-oxidants, high in berries, are also very important to

protect us from free radical damage.

Then there is the huge problem we all share of not drinking

enough water.

Many neurologists increase hydration before deciding on any

other course of action when Alzheimer's or other dementia

symptoms first appear.

And after autopsies, the shrunken brains of Alzheimer's

patients look very much like what they needed was more water!

Look at your plants. You know when they're dry because they

look it.

Plus, the lack of vitamin absorption increases as we age

and contributes to Alzheimer's development. Use of liquid

nutrition, sublingual vitamin tabs, and vitamin sprays are

now popular for this reason. I even sell liquid nutrients.

Many people still believe they can get all their nutrition

from food.

However, what they don't realize is that since the environment

today is so highly toxic, there are fewer nutrients in the

ground than ever before. Our food supply is becoming more

and more vitamin deficient and toxic.

Even our government has informed us that supplemental

nutrition is required for prevention of disease in the

world we live in today, while at the same time they want

to regulate our consumption. Sigh . . .

Then toxins like--alcohol, drugs, legal drugs and anaesthesias

rob us of our vitamins. Even worse, incorrect mixtures of

medications, like heart drugs and psychiatric meds often

cause memory loss problems.

And, of course, stress hurts memory deeply and causes people

to be unable to process information. Anxiety and depression,

for example, send a hormone to the brain called "cortisol,"

which then attacks the memory center.

That's why exercise is so helpful to memory, because it

reduces stress and cortisol. Plus exercise also fills the

blood with needed oxygen.

ADD, ADHD, lack of thyroid, estrogen, or testosterone and

other hormone problems, plus other brain illnesses and

mental disorders, all contribute to memory loss and can

contribute to Alzheimer's.

Not surprisingly, those who engage in fewer educational

pursuits have weaker memory skills and a greater risk of

dementia and Alzheimer's.

At first, I disagreed with this point, lest we forget all

the educated people--like President Ronald Reagan--who have

succumbed to Alzheimer's.

However, there is more than one way to develop Alzheimer's.

So now, let's look at what we know of Ronald Reagan's case.

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* Ronald Reagan, Blood Sugar, and St. Patty's Week!

Ronald Reagan was from an Irish family with an alcoholic

father and a loving mother.

Alcoholism's presence, in and of itself, affects dietary

habits. To start, alcohol contributes to depression and the

depletion of B vitamins. Both are very harmful to the memory.

When the father of the family is alcoholic, as was the case

in Reagan's family, it is typical that the children are the

recipients of a lesser diet. Why?

The family's budget for food is usually spent on alcohol and

the concern about a good diet is reduced with the lack of

sobriety. Thus, there is less attention to proper nutrition--

though I'm sure President Reagan's mother did her best.

Children's eating habits are determined by the parents. When

the importance of procurring healthy food for children is

not understood or cannot be the focus due to a distraction

like alcoholism, children are reduced to searching for sugars

and easily accessed refined carbohydrates.

These offer empty calories without vitamins for the growing

brains. Such habits form early and are not easily broken.

Thus, Ronald Reagan's love of jelly beans started long before

he was President, but seemed harmless enough, and probably

helped him feel normal until his aging process kicked in.

Other young people might not have fared as well as he did in

a similar environment. He had a very positive bent encouraged

by his mother and often told the old story above about how he

kept searching in that manure because he was sure there had to

be a pony in there somewhere!

You see--since low blood sugar can make us feel unable to

think clearly, most people are confused by this problem.

They believe they can aid their blood sugar by adding sweets or

refined carbs instead of fruits or veggies to clear up the

foggy moments of the day.

I'm sure Ronald Reagan must have felt this way throughout his

life. Yet, this type of thinking is unfortunate.

High sugar foods cause us to produce insulin and send us

running for more sugar. At their worst, they lead to

abnormalities like Alzheimer's, weight gain, diabetes,

bi-polar d/o, irritability, etc. At best, they get us through

the moment.

Instead, maintain a healthy blood sugar level by eating a

healthy diet. Then blood sugar will stay normal and balanced

throughout your day. As a general rule, avoid skipping meals

so your blood sugar will remain steady and even-keeled.

Healthy blood sugar comes from balanced proteins, lots of green

vegetables, low sugar fruits, and healthy whole grains eaten at

about the same time and in the same amounts each day.

By the way, all food eventually turns into sugar. That's why

it's called "blood sugar." The slower this occurs, the better

for your health and memory.

Unhealthy blood sugars occur from sweets, alcohol, white

refined carbohydrates like white sugar, white flour, white

rice, and even white potatoes--a staple of the Irish people.

Unfortunately, the availability of the white potato to the

Irish, which produces fast sugar helps keeps the Irish in the

habit of eating foods that turn into sugar rapidly.

Though low blood sugar disappears for the moment, healthy blood

sugar will not be maintained this way. People in this habit

must return for more fast sugars like sweets, bread, and alcohol to

normalize their systems again and again. A persistent cycle

develops.

So as for St. Patty's week--here's to your healthy memory,

mild alcohol consumption, and balanced eating habits! Try to

steer clear of white sugar, white flour, white rice and

white potatoes. Look for carbs that are called "whole grains."

Dr. Jill

E-Mail: drjill@thememorydoc.com
http://www.thememorydoc.com or
http://www.dontforgetmemoryloss.com
561-200-9380
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The Memory Doc by Jill Joyce, PhD

Volume I:23           February 14, 2005

* Memory Quotes

* Tina's Story: You Can't Believe Everything You Hear

* Tina Joins A Support Group

* When Tina Learns Her Brain is Healing

* The Diagnosis Dilemma--Being Stuck in a Box

* Never Give Up!

* Moral to Tina's Story

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* Memory Quote

"As the good book says, good news will stay and

bad news will refuse to leave."

                       --Tevya

                         The Papa; Fiddler on the Roof

“We never treated my husband as an invalid,

Fortunately Franklin never wanted to be treated

like one."

                       --Eleanor Roosevelt

"Never, never, never give up."

                       --Winston Churchill

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Dear Friends,

This past week I've been honored by many people

asking me to bring my message about memory loss

to seminars for their organizations.

Today I will present the story of Tina, (fictitious

name) a former client of mine who suffered memory

loss.

Hers is a fascinating, though not unusual story and

happens to people with all kinds of memory losses.

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* Tina’s Story—-You Can’t Believe Everything You Hear

This story reveals: People begin to believe in and hold

on to memory disorders even when there is huge evidence

they are improving.

Unfortunately, this often continues until a professional

exonerates them.

Tina came to a support group describing her irreparable

brain damage due to a head injury. She had been an

elementary music teacher, proud of her career, who had

recently remarried after being divorced for many years.

An unfortunate accident occurred at her public school

work place and over time she began to deteriorate and

eventually became unable to function.

The accident involved a heavy piece of equipment that

fell and hit her on the head. During a four-year period,

she began to have memory loss and other symptoms.

She was forgetful and easily confused, plus her

vocabulary and ability to focus and think began to

shrink.

She became unable to work, drive, organize, or do

normal every day errands.

Many doctors tried to be helpful. Then one doctor

told her the situation was hopeless, and she would

continually decline for the rest of her life and

end up in a nursing home.

This was the last thing she needed to hear.

Believing that one doctor, she went to bed and told her

new husband to leave her. (When we feel ill, it's so easy

to believe the worst.)

After a year of that behavior, he did leave, encouraged

to do so by two psychiatrists.

Over the next six years, Tina says, all she did was sleep

her life away. 

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* Tina Joins A Support Group

Then she appeared at my support group one day and reported

in a surprisingly animated and charming fashion how her

life was ruined, and she was going to decline continually,

growing progressively worse until her death.

This was what she firmly believed. She and others at the

group wondered if she should have surgery for her injury.

I asked her if she was driving, and she reported that she

had driven herself to our meeting place that day. Very

quickly, it became obvious to me that she had either

received bad information, or that over the years, it was

unknown to her that she had very much improved.

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* Tina Learns Her Brain is Healing

Only after I pointed out to her that she was healing and

not degenerating, did Tina's life begin to make a complete

turn around.

You see, until another professional convinced her that

she was getting better, she treated herself according

to the hopeless diagnosis: As a degenerating brain

injured woman with memory loss waiting to get

progressively worse and worse until her death.

At first, she simply could not believe me when I told

her she was getting better and went running back to

see her neurologist.

Her neurologist agreed that she was indeed doing fine.

Tina was dumbfounded.

Of course, this was exciting that she improved over the

six years, but it was also sad that she sent her husband

away and was alone and he was with another woman.

Then, with a great deal of encouragement and therapy,

she finally began teaching music again.

Believe me, it took enormous courage for her to begin

her previous work again. Her self-esteem was severely

eroded. My main work with her was to restore her

confidence, not her memory.

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* The Diagnosis Dilemma--Being Stuck in a Box!

Sadly, this type of story is not uncommon to therapists.

People are told they will or will not get better for

many reasons including:

Liability issues, poor insurance coverage, lack of

certainty or expectation for healing on the part of

the doctor, poor communications with the doctor, or

they simply avoid the ongoing doctor appointments all

together out of fear.

Others are getting better just as Tina did, but still

believe they are sick. Thus, they act accordingly,

because they are holding onto their hopeless diagnosis

and a poor prognosis of what will happen in the future.

It's always wonderful when one of them begins to realize

the truth of their improvements, the fragility of a

permanent diagnosis, and moves on to a bright new path

of life again like Tina finally did.

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* Never Give Up!

Actually, this whole problem could be solved if our society

would stop believing that the brain does not heal!

If you leave the doctor with a broken arm, you still expect

it to improve even if the doctor can not tell you exactly

how long it will take to be perfect.

Granted, all disorders are not the same, but as a culture,

we simply refuse to believe the brain has the healing

abilities of the rest of the body. And we are wrong!

We give up on the brain first, prompting it to shut down.

It responds accordingly as does our behavior.

Giving up is the last thing one should do, and then, only

after degenerative illness has one ready for hospice!

Recognition of improvement and healing opportunities do

not arrive in the vacuum of idleness.

Thus the quotes above by Tevya, Eleanor Roosevelt, and

Churchill.

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* The Moral to Tina's Story: Encourage those who claim

they have memory weaknesses and illnesses to believe in

themselves again!! And remember, brain cells heal!

By noticing a person's remaining strengths you will help

them build up from there. If they are to succeed, that

is where they must begin.

 Check my research sources (Claire; Marks; Rossi; Sachs;

Snowdon)! Also, my book offers many testimonies of brain

healings in Chapter 6.  

Dr. Jill

E-Mail: drjjoyce@att.net
http://www.thememorydoc.com
561-200-9380

 

Genesis 18:14 "Is anything too hard for the Lord?"

Jeremiah 32:17 "You have made the heavens and earth by your outstretched arm. There is nothing too hard for you."

 

 
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